If you have something on your mind that you want to do, dream to do, wish to do, now is the right time to do it.
I hear you. I mean, I hear your excuses in my mind. Because they’re also my excuses for not doing the things I want, dream, wish I could do.
The excuses can always be boiled down to the same obstacle. And that obstacle is fear.
You know the drill. The only way to have a full life, an extraordinary life, is to face fear by doing the things we’re afraid of doing.
Surprise your fear, make a feint, and score a goal!
What have you been putting off because you’re scared?
You probably know what you want to change in your life, but maybe you’re not open to change, or you’re stuck in a loop.
You want to change, but can’t seem to accomplish what you said you would, or you don’t know how to make it happen.
Maybe you do things, but it’s not working, and you don’t know what to do differently.
You might be too afraid because you know your own limitations, or it’s impossible because you would destroy everything you’ve built so far.
You’re running in circles. If only you could take action. You don’t feel like it though. You’re too tired. You’re afraid. You can’t. Your boss won’t let you. You have bills to pay. And you have 5 or 10 more very good reasons not to.
Changing something is a lot of work, and nobody feels like doing it. And there’s the difference between someone who’s running in circles, who feels stuck, and someone who does it anyway and makes things happen.
I know. The life you created makes you feel trapped and frustrated. You want something more.
The only antidote to running in circles is action. You’re in charge, and you can do the hard work to make your desires come true. Take action when you don’t feel like it, when you worry you can’t, and when everyone says you’re crazy.
Listen to that little twinge and stop running in circles.
It can be daunting to doubt your own thoughts and decisions, and other people’s actions and ideas. To doubt means to have feeling of uncertainty about the truth, reality, or nature of something. Even when that something is proven by facts, science, and unfaulted logic.
When you chronically doubt yourself, you create a loop of low self-confidence that leads to more self-doubt. When you lack confidence in your own decision, it’s because you are afraid of making a mistake.
A great way to combat self-doubt is to experience the very thing you’re doubting. It’s in no case a quick fix, will surely take some time and efforts, and there will be plenty of challenges along the way because doubt is perceived as some kind of safety. You’ll have to remind yourself that it is okay to make mistakes because you’ll learn from them, and grow because you’ll have survive the experience.
The more experiences you create to battle your self-doubts, the more confidence you’ll build, which will also create a loop, a positive one that is.
In short, self-doubt is another fancy word for fear, and the only way to fight fear is to have the courage to face it.